When the clock is ticking...

...the mind of a soon-to-be-married man can get messy.

Any man who has been through the year before and the year after The Big Day know this to be true: There is no way to plan for what you fiancee or wife might do or say. You can read books, consult other Married Men, look to some oracle. It will do you no good. One minute you are Leo DeCaprio, hanging off the end of a doomed boat, screaming about being a king, and the next you're asking where thant damned iceberg came from and how did everything get so soaking wet all of a sudden.

I only bring it up because Brother Beaker over at Code Orange is in the middle of his first engagement crisis and he needs everybody's help.

I won't go through the details. He explains the situation pretty well and if I were to get in the middle of a full explanation, there is a good chance I would get myself in trouble. I don't need that right now. I'm only a year and a half into my marital bliss and I'm just now learning when a man should keep his mouth shut (do you think I should've mentioned any of that?)

The thing is...he wants your imput and anyone who has every been married (man or woman) is invited to participate. Click on over, read hit problem, and comment in the "comment" section.

So, climb out of your Marriage Bunker and go out on a limb for the guy. Just be careful you don't scamper out too far. Those limbs can be tricky sometimes.